Have You Ever Struggled with Making a Decision?

Maria Santiago
4 min readSep 18, 2024

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Do you overthink to the point that it becomes difficult to make a one?

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Well than this might be the reason.

Analysis Paralysis

Analysis paralysis is the term used to describe a situation where excessive overthinking about a decision or action results in the inability to make a choice. It typically occurs when an individual is faced with too many options or an overload of information, which hinders their ability to progress.

How It Happens

Analysis paralysis can occur when you:

  • Overanalyze options: Considering every possible outcome and detail can create confusion.
  • Fear making the wrong choice: Worrying about potential negative consequences can lead to indecision.
  • Seek perfection: Trying to find the perfect solution can prevent you from making any decision at all

Symptoms

  • Feeling stuck: You might feel unable to make even simple decisions.
  • Increased stress: The pressure to make the right choice can cause anxiety.
  • Procrastination: Delaying decisions because you’re unsure of the best option

Imagine you have an important event to attend, and you want to look your best. You open your closet and see a variety of options: a sleek black dress, a colorful floral dress, a stylish pantsuit, and a casual yet chic outfit. You start considering your options.

  • The black dress is classic and elegant, but you worry it might be too formal.
  • The floral dress is vibrant and fun, but you’re unsure if it’s appropriate for the event.
  • The pantsuit is trendy and professional, but you’re concerned it might be too bold.
  • The casual outfit is comfortable and stylish, but you fear it might be too laid-back.

You try on each outfit multiple times, taking pictures and seeking opinions from friends. The more you think about it, the more uncertain you become. You start imagining different scenarios and how each outfit might be perceived. Hours pass, and you still haven’t made a decision. Eventually, you feel so overwhelmed that you consider not going to the event at all.

“This has occurred numerous times in my life to the point that I feel overwhelmed. Therefore, I did my research and found some helpful tips that I wanted to share with you that truly eased my overthinking and questioning.”

Here are some practical tips to help you:

  • Set a Deadline: Give yourself a specific time to decide. This stops you from thinking too long and helps you act quickly.
  • Prioritize Your Criteria: Figure out what matters most for your decision. Focus on these important factors to guide you.
  • Trust Your Intuition: Sometimes, your gut feeling is right. If you strongly feel one option is best, trust that feeling.
  • Seek Advice: Talk to friends, family, or teachers for a new perspective. Their opinions can help you see things more clearly.
  • Accept Imperfection: No decision is perfect. It’s better to make a good decision than to make none at all.
  • Take Small Steps: Break the decision into smaller parts. This makes it less scary and helps you move forward bit by bit.
  • Reflect on Past Decisions: Think about past choices and their outcomes. This can boost your confidence in making good decisions.
  • Practice Mindfulness: Stay focused on the present moment. This can reduce stress and clear your mind, making decisions easier.
  • Learn from Experience: Every decision teaches you something. Use these lessons to get better at making decisions over time.
  • Limit Your Options: Too many choices can be confusing. Pick three to five options to make deciding easier.

This last bullet point is the one that works best for me.”

“And so, I discovered that initiating action, however minor, was crucial to break free from my analysis paralysis. Concentrating on progress over perfection granted me liberation. I trust my story will help assist you in navigating your way ahead. Bear in mind, each step is significant, and I hope this has been beneficial.”

Thank you for reading, always remember 👇Stay grounded, while life happens.

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Maria Santiago
Maria Santiago

Written by Maria Santiago

I aim to inspire, motivate, offer compassion, and guidance. I will show you how to find light and purpose during the darkest moments. Just let go and let God.

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